Lessons Learned

Flirting with German girls. Yepp. Im not gonna say im an expect, i dont anyone could ever be with German women. What I have found is that German women are some of the most beautiful women around, but as beautiful as they are they are also equally as difficult to approach. Especially for us foreign speakers of German. Of course most everyone around here speaks a bit of english, and they love to speak it. So if you can break the ice somehow and get to the talking and dont feel confident with your German they'll probably start the english right away anyway. But I enjoy talking German, so when I try and make a move Im doing it in German. But once you've broken the ice with whatever special dance moves or elaborate events, they're all usually very friendly and responsive. Especially when you're a foreigner speaking pretty decent German. On a side note it really amazes people here when im talking to them in pretty good German and I tell them im from New York. The reaction is always either "Why did you want to study German?" or "New York!!!! I love it there, why did you want to come here". But yea so being a foreigner talking in German to German women is definently going to help you out. But ive seen amerikans here who speak no German, talking in stupid english to German girls and they still get somewhere. Then if you manage to make it past the first date or so and a relationship develops, it has a totally different feel than in ny. Here it seems that if you're going to be with someone, its going to be a long term sort of a thing. Sort of a one year minimum thing. Where in the states, at least in my friend group, relationships of just a few months are way more common. You see couples here who have been together for 3 or 4 years and its very common. Its pretty cool. alright now i gotta run. Try and figure out what happened to me last night that i decided to write this blog. love this video.